How to Tell if Your BDSM Relationship is Abusive

For some, the line between healthy power exchange and potential abuse can be blurry. This piece from Vice explores the psychological aspects and best practice to keep it safe, sane, and consensual. Read an excerpt below, then the full article here:

“For the average person, BDSM (bondage, dominance, submission, and masochism—a type of sexual behavior) may mean the occasional light spanking in the bedroom. Maybe there are handcuffs, ropes, or other toys obtained from the local erotic store. But for many people who identify as being part of the “leather community” or, more generally, the “kink community,” BDSM is a lifestyle. These folks don't dabble in BDSM play. They live it.”