Daniel Saynt, the founder of sex-and-cannibis-friendly private-members club the New Society for Wellness, admits this wand is not exactly travel-size, but recommends it to anyone looking for “a multifunctional pleaser” while away. It comes with a few attachments — a standard head, one for more targeted stimulation, and another for internal stimulation — all of which can be used with one of the toy’s five vibration modes and six speeds. As Saynt puts it, this wand “provides endless options” when it comes to self-stimulation — something you may want if you’re traveling for a long period of time.

Buying lube can be, at best, embarrassing and, at worst, downright confusing, especially if the only type of lube you’ve purchased before is from the drugstore. But if you have resigned yourself to a life of using less-than-perfect lube (or you’ve avoided it entirely), you probably just need to try a different type to notice better results.