This Refinery 29 article by Eliza Dumais breaks down the best sec toys for everyone based on their love language. Find an excerpt below, then the full piece here:

“Much to the chagrin of anyone who has ever loved me, I tend to demand a surplus of adoration, while offering medium to no affection in return. No, this has not been a particularly productive mode of operation for me, but nevertheless, it’s a pattern. We’re all entitled to our quirks, no? As it turns out, however, “love languages” in the traditional sense are not self-indulgent excuses for our romantic shortcomings. They have a formula. And according to ’90s pop psychology theory, there are five of them: acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, gift-giving, and quality time. Each of us is partial to one.”