How to Explore Your Queerness When You Have a Straight Partner

This Vice article by Amanda Kohr talks about how to navigate queer exploration when you have a straight partner. Find an excerpt below, then the full piece here:

“Most people know to anticipate some degree of change when they’re in a committed, long-term romantic relationship: a desire for more nights in with Netflix instead of drunken ragers on the dance floor; the inevitable shift of physical appearances; the unexpected transformation of a side gig into a career. But many people assume sexual orientation is fairly stable—that whether you’re gay or straight, you’re “born this way,” and that’s what you’ll be forever.”