NSFW SOHO

MAR 1ST, 7PM-11PM

HEY YOU SEXY F*CKS

BDSM takes center stage at NSFW’s HOW TO DOMINATE, our intensive 4-week course on domination and submission. This workshop will take you through advanced lessons in establishing a dom/sub relationship allowing you to walk away with techniques ideal for bringing a bit of kinky fun into your bedroom.

Each class will end with plenty of time for one on one instruction with our Resident Expert, Mistress Dee. A professional domme with years of experience in setting the scene, domination and advanced BDSM, Mistress Dee is our lead instructor in the arts of kink and fetish. Solo guests will be partnered with other students or couples.

While domination will be the focus, students can choose a submissive path for the course and experience the other side of control.

Each week will end with a demonstration with our Resident Expert and supporting sub.

Lesson plan will include:

• Week 1. Finding Your Voice (MAR 1): We’ll explore the roles that we fulfill through BDSM and the benefits it has on our mental health and sexual wellness. Understand the importance of negotiation and stepping into your most dominant or submissive self. Get your first taste of submission or domination and explore roles in a safe, judgement-free environment. Students will walk away with assignments aimed at demonstrating their dominance or submissive selves.

• Week 2. Exploring the Toy Chest: (MAR 8) We’ll review various instruments of play and ways to explore each with your partner. Electroshock, paddles, floggers and restraints will be explored with our demo bottom and Resident Expert. Students will gain an understanding of tools available in the arsenal for those looking to dominate.

• Week 3. Beyond the Bedroom (MAR 15): Service submission will be explored as well as ways to bring your BDSM fantasies outside the bedroom. We’ll explore forms of submission and service subs. Humiliation, punishment and other forms of consensual submission will be discussed and engaged at this interactive workshop. We'll also explore more advanced forms of BDSM including predicament bondage.

• Week 4. Final Demonstration (MAR 22): Each student will be tasked with presenting what they’ve learned. They will come prepared and work with a demo sub or partner to create a scene for the class.

Full access to all toys and tools available at the Clubhouse as well as some gear to add to your personal collection. While our class will encourage some playful activities, this event can be experienced at your level of comfort in a zero pressure environment.

NEW TO NSFW ?

If you're purchasing a Travelers Pass, please submit your profile on Play.NSFW. Take time to fill out profile questions and provide a reference to better increase your chances for approval. Once approved you'll be asked to pay an application fee to activate your profile on our private members network.

Once in our community you can connect on chats, meet other members, and find new like-minded friends to connect with. You'll also receive newsletters with exclusive events, updates and ways you can better support our community.

Review our Code of Conduct before attending. If you have any questions before the event reach out to rsvp@ns-fw.com.

SET EXPECTATIONS

NSFW Soho is divided into four sections. Enter through the gift shop. Mix and mingle in our bar area before entering into our more playful zones. The environment is ZERO pressure to allow you to meet friends at your own pace. In our play zones you'll find plenty of furnishings and gear to help fulfill any fantasies.

The experience has been designed to allow for plenty of conversation. Newer members are encouraged to arrive earlier for introductions to our House Manager and welcoming members. The first two hours are for mingling and getting to know people. Around midnight we open up the night with performances. After the lights get a bit lower for more intimate experiences.

If you’re new, we encourage you to bring a friend or a date to make the experience a little easier. Our staff is extremely friendly and available to answer any questions you might have about the evening. Our bar closes 30 minutes before closing. Around 15 minutes before closing lights will rise and we’ll bring on a little music for your exit.

ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT

We ask all members and guests to practice enthusiastic consent when they are at the Clubhouse. If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no. You should ask before engaging in conversation with people, before initiating touch, or before engaging in any sexual actions unless you are engaged with a partner who comfortable with implied consent.

SAFETY

Don’t be a Creeper. Nymphs are guardians who support and oversee NSFW Adventures. They wear white during events and you can go to them if anyone is making you uncomfortable. We will remove anyone who is contributing to an unsafe environment. This includes being pushy, not accepting rejection humbly or becoming overly intoxicated. Be firm and clear with your BOUNDARIES.

If you are reported, you will be removed from the event immediately and may face cancellation of membership or permanent ban.

ACCEPTANCE

NSFW is a BIPOC and LGBTQ+ owned, organized and cared for community. Do not yuck on anyone’s yum. Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes. Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually. Our aim is to create safe, judgment-free spaces for exploration.

NSFW is a diverse community. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

DRESS CODE

Unless otherwise noted, our dress code is BLACK. This is to reduce flashy displays of status or wealth and to encourage more authentic connections at the New Society for Wellness. If you are not in the dress code when you arrive you’ll be asked to purchase something BLACK from our gift shop.

BEHAVIOR

We embodying ideals inspired by love, empathy, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness, self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace. Never pressure anyone to engage. Be kind to one another. Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Everyone within our doors should feel welcome.

Anger and violence have no place here. Members are expected to take rejection gracefully. If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others. You can report bad behavior here.

PRIVACY

NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed privately. Do not share details about other members publicly. Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so. Cell phones are strictly prohibited in play areas and we ask that you limit use while in the Clubhouse.

COVID

Vaccination or recent test required to attend.