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  • New Society for Wellness New York, NY, 10013 United States (map)
 

NSFW SOHO

JANUARY 24TH

7PM - 11pM

HEY YOU SEXY F*CKS

So you're thinking about opening up your relationship, but you don’t know where to start?

Are you already engaged in some form of open love or polyamory, but think there's more you can do to make it run smoothly?

Are you interested in poly, but need help wrapping your head around jealousy or losing the one you love?

Join Dr. Christine Romano and Brianna Makówka from Next Level Mental Health Counseling for a deep dive into navigating new relationship styles. Perfect for couples or solo poly folks looking to expand your dating pool and bring new experiences into their sex lives.

This workshop is a deep dive that will be nuanced into what's required for an intentional, deliberate relationship. You will leave this with a good sense of what you’re up for, and what you’re doesn't feel right. Respectful, ethically-informed and non-judgemental gain tools and information you need so you can understand and comfortably explore what's right for you.

Our workshop will begin at 7:30PM.

All guests must comply to NSFW's Code of Conduct to attend.

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NOTICE: The NSFW is a private club. You must be screened and approved to attend. To be approved, APPLY HERE. You will be asked a few questions which will be reviewed by our members. We normally take 24 hours to approve new members. You will have to select a membership before attending unless you're attending with an existing member.

All our memberships are LIFETIME and will allow you access to our events and member only areas where you can connect with thousands of other like-minded members.

NEW TO NSFW ?

Submit your profile on Play.NSFW. Take time to fill out questions and provide a reference to better increase chances for approval. Once approved you'll be asked to pay an application fee to activate your profile on our private social network.

Once in our community you can connect on naughty chats and find new like-minded members to connect with. You'll also receive newsletter updates and ways you can better support the community. Review our Code of Conduct before attending. If you have any questions before the event reach out to rsvp@ns-fw.com.

SET EXPECTATIONS

NSFW Soho is divided into four sections. Mix and mingle in our bar area before entering into our more playful zones. The environment is ZERO pressure to allow you to meet friends at your own pace. In our play zones you'll find plenty of furnishings and kink gear to help fulfill any fantasies.

The experience has been designed to allow for plenty of conversation. Newer members are encouraged to arrive earlier for introductions to our House Manager and Nymphs. The first two hours are for mingling and getting to know people. Earlier in the evening enjoy some erotic sketching and ambiance by our Muses. Around midnight we spice up the evening with erotic performances. Then the lights get a bit lower for more intimate experiences.

If you’re new, we encourage you to bring a friend or a date to make the experience a little easier. Our staff is extremely friendly and available to answer any questions you might have about the evening. Our bar closes 30 minutes before closing. Around 15 minutes before closing lights will rise and we’ll bring on a little music for your exit.

ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT

We ask all members and guests to practice enthusiastic consent when they are at the Clubhouse. If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a hell no. You should ask before engaging in conversation with people, before initiating touch, or before engaging in any sexual actions unless you are engaged with a partner who comfortable with implied consent.

SAFETY

Don’t be a Creeper. Nymphs are guardians who support and oversee NSFW Adventures. They wear white during events and you can go to them if anyone is making you uncomfortable. We will remove anyone who is contributing to an unsafe environment. This includes being pushy, not accepting rejection humbly or becoming overly intoxicated.

Be firm and clear with your BOUNDARIES. If you are reported, you will be removed from the event and may face suspension of membership or a permanent ban.

ACCEPTANCE

NSFW is a BIPOC and LGBTQ+ owned, organized and cared for community. Do not yuck on anyone’s yum. Sex is varied and exploration takes many shapes. Do not judge others for how they choose to express themselves sexually. Our aim is to create safe, judgment-free spaces for exploration.

NSFW is a diverse community. We condemn the practice of race based fetishization. Members who use hurtful words or who engage in practices that are anti-Black, racist, homophobic, transphobic, ageist, body shaming, whorephobic or xenophobic may be warned, removed or suspended from our community.

DRESS CODE

Unless otherwise noted, our dress code is POLISHED. Black is encouraged, but no longer required for entry. Dress in what makes you feel sexy. Kink and fetish gear encouraged.

BEHAVIOR

We embodying ideals inspired by love, empathy, sexual freedom, finding new states of happiness, self-awareness and acceptance. Those who are welcomed here are encouraged to explore, but everyone has the right to do so at their own pace.

Never pressure anyone to engage. Be kind to one another. Hugs and signs of affection are encouraged. Think about each other and ways to make our community better. Everyone within our doors should feel welcome.

Anger and violence have no place here. Members are expected to take rejection gracefully. If someone isn’t interested in you or if you’re not interested in another person, please don’t take it as an opportunity to lash out or to respond in anger. Rejection is part of the process and shouldn’t be used to harm others. You can report bad behavior here.

PRIVACY

NSFW is a private community and we ask for disputes between the membership to be managed privately. Please do not share details about other members publicly as this may result in removal from the membership.

Do not reach out to other members on their personal social profiles unless they have given you approval to do so. Cell phones are strictly prohibited in play areas and we ask that you limit use while in the Clubhouse.

 
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