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Conspirator Letter: Entering Year 10 at the New Society for Wellness

In March of 2025, we will celebrate ten years of the New Society for Wellness.

This is a major milestone for this community and brings with it a lot of considerations on how we will rebuild our Clubhouse in NYC and bring The NSFW to new cities.

Our mission has always been to destigmatize the sex club. To bring people together for the purpose of prioritizing pleasure. To cultivate consent culture and provide members a safe, judgement-free community to explore their sexuality.

Over the past decade we’ve maintained this mission hosting over a thousand playful workshops and parties aimed at offering our members a little hedonistic escape. 2024 has brought on its own unique struggles, like not having a permanent Clubhouse and being unable to find a consistent space to host our events.

We’re finally at the end of 2024 and the work we’ve done over the past few months should bring us back together in a more permanent house in time for our decennial in March.

Our mission remains community funded and I truly want to thank everyone who’s helped to keep us hosting and bringing people together. I love this work and hope to continue building for many decades more.

Community Updates

Our next major event will be New Year’s Evil, a costumed event to welcome in 2025. The theme is villains, so bring your best Cruela, Voldermort or Regina George.

We’ll be hosting at our planned Chelsea location (250 W.26th) and the night will feature performances by our muses, plenty of room to play and access to a full dungeon space. We’re expecting 50+ guests for the night. You find access passes here and couples passes here.

There will be unlimited bubbly and you can purchase an open bar pass at the door if you want a cocktail. We recently updated our Clubhouse Rules, which give you all the information you need to make your night special.

After, we’ll be hosting monthly PlayDate All Play and Couples at the space, building up our calendar into the new year. Here you can find passes to our Jan 11th and Jan 25th PlayDates. We’re currently raising for renovations for the space, but are on path to have it fully completed by the Spring.

In 2025, you will be able to purchase passes if you have an approved profile on TheNSFW.Club.

You will have to pay a one night membership fee at the door ($35 solo/$50 couples). Just have your approval email when you arrive to ensure you’ve been vetted. We’ve added this level of access to accommodate people traveling into NYC and those who are curious about our events but unsure if they are ready for a membership.


If you don’t want to pay this fee, you can purchase a lifetime NSFW Member Card here. Your purchase includes a couples pass for an upcoming event and opens up the NSFW Club social network and private Chats.

If you’d like to get unlimited access and free passes for two to our adventures, you can upgrade to a VIP Membership here. This membership means you’ll never have to pay for couples passes to our events and will also get invites to secret VIP events (additional costs may apply for these).

In addition, we are introducing KeyHolder for NSFW Chelsea.

This monthly membership includes a complimentary NSFW Member Card (ensuring lifetime access to our online and IRL events).

It includes access for two to any event including our VIP only experiences, open bar for you and a guest, access passes for an additional 10 guests per month and one monthly private booking at the Clubhouse.

We will only have only ten of these memberships available and the fees go directly towards the new Clubhouse.


We have a lot of plans for Chelsea, but are taking it slow. The toll of building and breaking down multiple spaces this year has been a lot for me personally and I want to make sure not to have to do it again for a very long time. The deal with the space is a takeover of an existing club and we are working directly with the current leaseholder and landlord to ensure a transition to be fully operating in the Spring.

Over the next few weeks, we’ll be adding more to our calendar for 2025 including Bacchus and All Saynts Day, which will commemorate our tenth year of being adventurous.

Once we transfer management of Chelsea, we will begin to open the space for more partner events offering members even more to discover.


$LOVER Launch

March will be the official public launch of $LOVER token, so we’re offering members 500 tokens to hold before the release. Get yours here.

We’ll be using $LOVER as a means to raise for further development of The NSFW and provide us enough funding to support our next Clubhouse launch in Los Angeles.


In addition, we recently launched The NSFW Guide to Sex, a digital only subscription focused on teaching, sharing stories and giving people outside of the membership skills to build playful relationships. We’ll be introducing weekly content aimed at making you a better lover, more explorative and better at giving and receiving pleasure. There will also be monthly lives and a subscriber only podcast to help strengthen the sex lives of all who subscribe.

Think of The NSFW Guide to Sex as a building library of all the best lessons and learnings from ten years of hosting playful events. It’s only $6 a month to support and there are new articles, videos and more launched weekly.